Is This Affection,
or Just Attention?

He makes you feel like the only person in the room, and then the room empties and you are checking your phone wondering if he remembers you were in it. Attention can feel intoxicating in the moment. Affection is what remembers you after the moment passes.

Answer from how he treats you over time, especially after the moment that felt good has passed. Your honesty helps this reflection show the affection that is actually present.