Waiting for Him to Open Up, or Guarding Yourself Too?
You keep waiting for him to open the door first, and somewhere along the way you quietly locked your own side of it too. Notice how much you have actually shared lately, not just how much you have been waiting to receive.
Let yourself answer from what you have shared and what you have held back. The more openly you respond, the clearer this reflection can show where you may be protecting your own heart.
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This reflection draws on established concepts in attachment psychology and emotional wellbeing research. It is meant for personal insight, not as a clinical diagnosis.