You read his face the second you walk into a room, adjusting yourself slightly based on what you find there before you have even said hello. Approval can feel like safety when you have learned to read the room first.
Answer from the moments when approval changes how you see yourself. Your honesty will reveal whether your sense of safety is coming from within or being handed over to someone else.
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This reflection draws on established relationship-psychology concepts around commitment, reciprocity, and emotional safety. It is meant for personal insight, not as a clinical diagnosis.