Can You Ask for Affection Without Apologising for Needing It?
You add sorry to the front of the sentence every time you ask him to hold you a little longer. Needing affection is not something you should have to apologize for.
Consider how often you soften, delay, or apologise for a need that matters to you. Answering openly will help this reflection show whether you can ask for affection with steady self-respect.
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Are You Emotionally Steady, or Always Bracing for the Next Shift?
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This reflection draws on established relationship-psychology concepts around commitment, reciprocity, and emotional safety. It is meant for personal insight, not as a clinical diagnosis.