The high after he finally texts back feels like love. It might just be relief that the waiting stopped. Those two things live in the same part of your chest, and only one of them is safe to build a relationship on.
Let yourself be honest about how this relationship feels on an ordinary day. Your answers give the quiz a truer picture of what is happening beneath the moments that feel intense.
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This reflection draws on established relationship-psychology concepts around consistency, safety, and self-recognition in relationships. It is meant for personal insight, not as a clinical diagnosis.