You have started narrating the distance as something that happened between the two of you, a slow drift neither of you caused. Check whether the drift actually started somewhere closer to home, inside you, before it ever reached him.
Answer from the connection you feel with yourself as well as with him. The more open you are about the distance you have noticed, the clearer this reflection can show where you may be losing touch.
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This reflection draws on established concepts in attachment psychology and emotional wellbeing research. It is meant for personal insight, not as a clinical diagnosis.