You feel most secure in this relationship right after you have done something helpful for him, less secure on the days you have not. Being needed is not the same as being loved.
Answer from the ways you give time, care, or emotional labor when you are hoping to feel secure. Your honesty will show whether giving is reciprocal or becoming your price for love.
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This reflection draws on established relationship-psychology concepts around commitment, reciprocity, and emotional safety. It is meant for personal insight, not as a clinical diagnosis.