Are You Building Toward the Same Future, or Loving the Idea of One?
You have the whole future mapped out in your head, timeline and all, and you have not actually confirmed how much of that map he has agreed to. A shared future needs more than chemistry and beautiful plans.
Answer from the future you both say you want and the actions supporting it. The more candid you are, the more clearly this reflection can show your dating intentions.
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This reflection draws on established relationship-psychology concepts around commitment, reciprocity, and emotional safety. It is meant for personal insight, not as a clinical diagnosis.