He remembered your coffee order and you felt something loosen in your chest, relief more than delight, the quiet exhale of someone who has been braced for less. Notice which one that was before you decide what it means about him.
Answer from the moments that truly moved you and the moments that simply met a basic need. Your honesty helps this reflection show where your standards may have been lowered.
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This reflection draws on established concepts in attachment psychology and emotional wellbeing research. It is meant for personal insight, not as a clinical diagnosis.
