Sometimes it is not the man you are attached to. It is the relief, validation, intensity, or version of yourself you feel when his attention lands on you.
Answer honestly about what you miss, what you crave, what you ignore, and whether your attachment is to his character or to the emotional high around him.
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This reflection draws on established relationship-psychology concepts around attachment, reciprocity, emotional safety, and self-protection. It is meant for personal insight, not as a clinical diagnosis.