Sometimes the man is real, but the relationship you are attached to is mostly made of imagined scenes, future conversations, and the version of him you wish would arrive.
Answer honestly about fantasy, evidence, potential, chemistry, and whether you are loving what is here or what your heart keeps writing for him.
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This reflection draws on established relationship-psychology concepts around attachment, reciprocity, emotional safety, and self-protection. It is meant for personal insight, not as a clinical diagnosis.
