Real intimacy tends to stay warm afterward. Access tends to leave the moment it gets what it came for.
Answer honestly by comparing before and after, not just how it felt in the moment.
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That Was Just AccessThat Was Intimacy
This reflection draws on established relationship-psychology concepts around investment, reciprocity, and emotional availability. It is meant for personal insight, not as a clinical diagnosis.