Something about how he talks to her bothers you, and you cannot quite tell if that is an old insecurity talking or an actual boundary being crossed. Jealousy can point to an unmet need, a boundary concern, or a fear that needs gentleness.
Answer from the moments that make your stomach tighten or your mind start comparing. Your honesty will help you understand what your jealousy is asking you to notice.
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This reflection draws on established relationship-psychology concepts around commitment, reciprocity, and emotional safety. It is meant for personal insight, not as a clinical diagnosis.
