Are You Learning Who He Is, or Interviewing Him for Potential?

You have started asking questions that quietly check boxes toward a future, instead of questions that simply help you learn who he actually is right now. This reflection explores whether early questions help you meet the real person or rush toward a fantasy future.

Think about what you are trying to learn when you ask a question early on. Honest answers will help this reflection show whether curiosity is meeting the real person in front of you.