Do You Miss Him, or the Hope of Who He Could Have Been?

You miss him on the nights that are hardest, and when you sit with it honestly, you are not always sure whether you miss the man or the future you had built around him in your head. This reflection explores whether you are grieving the relationship you actually had or the one you imagined.

Answer from what you miss about him and what you miss about the future you pictured. Your honesty helps this reflection show where idealization may be keeping the attachment alive.