He tells you he is sure about this within weeks, and you cannot decide if that certainty feels like being chosen or like being cornered. One of those settles your nervous system. The other keeps it on alert.
Take a breath and answer from the way his certainty lands in your body over time. The more honestly you respond, the clearer this reflection can show whether his intensity feels steady or overwhelming.
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This reflection draws on established concepts in attachment psychology and emotional wellbeing research. It is meant for personal insight, not as a clinical diagnosis.