Over Him,
or Over Talking About Him?

You have stopped mentioning his name in conversation, and you told yourself that meant you were finally over it. Sometimes silence means healed. Sometimes it just means you got tired of hearing your own voice hurt over someone who did not handle you well.

Answer from the thoughts that still find you when no one is asking how you are doing. Your honesty helps this reflection show whether your heart has had the space to move through the loss.