Is Power Shared in Your Relationship, or Are You Carrying It?
You have noticed most of the big decisions quietly default to what he prefers, even the ones that affect your life more than his. Shared power shows up in ordinary decisions, boundaries, and who gets to have a say.
Answer with the everyday moments in mind, especially the ones you usually carry without naming. Honest answers reveal whether power and responsibility are truly shared.
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This reflection draws on established relationship-psychology concepts around commitment, reciprocity, and emotional safety. It is meant for personal insight, not as a clinical diagnosis.