Are You Protecting Yourself, or Pushing Love Away?
He got a little closer this week and you found a reason to pull back before he could get close enough to actually disappoint you. Self protection can become distance when closeness begins to feel risky.
Answer with compassion for the ways you protect yourself when closeness feels risky. Honest answers will reveal whether those habits are keeping you safe or keeping love at a distance.
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This reflection draws on established relationship-psychology concepts around commitment, reciprocity, and emotional safety. It is meant for personal insight, not as a clinical diagnosis.