Real protection has a cost he shares. Convenience only ever costs you.
Answer honestly about whose comfort the secrecy actually serves.
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This reflection draws on established relationship-psychology concepts around commitment, reciprocity, and emotional safety. It is meant for personal insight, not as a clinical diagnosis.