The nights you need him closest are somehow the nights he finds a reason to be somewhere else. When someone pulls away at the moments you need closeness, you can begin to question whether your needs are welcome.
Answer from the moments when you reach for closeness and feel him move further away. The more candid you are, the more clearly this reflection can show what that distance is doing to you.
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Are You Emotionally Steady, or Always Bracing for the Next Shift?
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This reflection draws on established relationship-psychology concepts around commitment, reciprocity, and emotional safety. It is meant for personal insight, not as a clinical diagnosis.