You have noticed you are usually the one reaching first, planning first, initiating the conversation that keeps things moving forward. Reciprocity is easier to feel than to explain.
Answer from the way you pursue connection and the way he meets or withdraws from it. The more truthfully you respond, the more clearly this reflection can show the dynamic.
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Protected ShutdownOpen-Hearted Discernment
This reflection draws on established relationship-psychology concepts around commitment, reciprocity, and emotional safety. It is meant for personal insight, not as a clinical diagnosis.