You made up on the surface days ago, and there is still a faint tension in the room that neither of you has actually named. Repair begins after the argument, when both people decide what the moment needs next.
Think of what happens after the argument ends, when the room is quiet again. Your honest answers will show whether repair is part of your relationship or something you are left to carry alone.
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This reflection draws on established relationship-psychology concepts around commitment, reciprocity, and emotional safety. It is meant for personal insight, not as a clinical diagnosis.