Do You Love Yourself, or Are You Still Earning Permission To?
You feel most at ease with yourself right after you have accomplished something impressive, and less sure of your own worth on the ordinary days in between. A private check on whether your worth belongs to you, or still depends on being useful, chosen, easy, or impressive.
Answer from the places you still feel you must earn permission to be loved. The more truthfully you respond, the more clearly this reflection can show your self-love.
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This reflection draws on established relationship-psychology concepts around commitment, reciprocity, and emotional safety. It is meant for personal insight, not as a clinical diagnosis.