You have gotten so good at making things easy for everyone else that you cannot remember the last time you asked for something and just let the moment sit there, unsoftened. Being easy to love should not mean being easy to overlook.
Think about the moments when you want something and have to decide whether to ask for it. Your honest answers help this reflection show how you make room for your own needs.
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This reflection draws on established relationship-psychology concepts around attachment, reciprocity, emotional safety, and self-protection. It is meant for personal insight, not as a clinical diagnosis.
