Not every hard season is a red flag. But some patterns repeat for a reason.
Answer honestly. There is no wrong pattern, only the one you have not named yet.
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This reflection draws on established relationship-psychology concepts around respect, consistency, and safety in communication. It is meant for personal insight, not as a clinical diagnosis.