Acts of Service,
or Bare Minimum Effort?

He fixed the thing that was broken in your apartment without you asking, and you told your friends that as proof he loves you, even though you could not remember the last time he asked how your week actually went. A man doing something practical can be love. It can also be the easiest way to avoid emotional presence.

Think about the practical care he gives without being asked and the things you have had to carry alone. Your answers help this reflection show whether his effort feels like real service.