A man doing something practical can be love. It can also be the easiest way to avoid emotional presence.
Answer honestly about whether his actions feel thoughtful, mutual, and emotionally connected.
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This reflection draws on established relationship-psychology concepts around affection, attachment, reciprocity, and emotional safety. It is meant for personal insight, not as a clinical diagnosis.