You reached for him three times on Tuesday and pulled away from him twice by Thursday, and neither version was you lying. Both were real. They were just two different fears taking their turn at the wheel.
Give room to both sides of your experience, the part that reaches for closeness and the part that pulls away. Your honest answers help this reflection understand the pattern beneath those shifts.
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This reflection draws on established concepts in attachment psychology and emotional wellbeing research. It is meant for personal insight, not as a clinical diagnosis.