You are the friend everyone calls unbothered, the one who shrugs it off in front of others. Notice what that same moment looks like when nobody is watching.
Answer from how you see yourself when you are alone with a difficult feeling. Your honesty helps this reflection distinguish what you believe from the image you try to maintain.
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This reflection draws on established relationship-psychology concepts around attachment, reciprocity, emotional safety, and self-protection. It is meant for personal insight, not as a clinical diagnosis.