Sometimes a relationship feels calm only because you have learned not to expect too much from it.
This quiz helps you see whether trust is growing, or whether disappointment has simply become familiar.
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This reflection draws on established relationship-psychology concepts around consistency, reciprocity, attachment, and emotional safety. It is meant for personal insight, not as a clinical diagnosis.