You have started decoding his silences, building whole meanings out of how fast he replies. There is a difference between discernment and emotional pursuit. One protects your peace. The other spends it.
Think about what you do when his effort drops and you feel tempted to close the distance yourself. Your answers help this reflection show whether you are responding to signals or chasing clarity.
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This reflection draws on established relationship-psychology concepts around consistency, reciprocity, attachment, and emotional safety. It is meant for personal insight, not as a clinical diagnosis.
