When you are the planner, fixer, translator, and peacekeeper, love can start to feel like unpaid emotional work.
This quiz shows whether the exhaustion belongs to life, or to a relationship that asks too much from you.
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This reflection draws on established relationship-psychology concepts around consistency, reciprocity, attachment, and emotional safety. It is meant for personal insight, not as a clinical diagnosis.
