Both can look identical from the outside. Only one of them fights against the closeness you actually want.
Answer honestly, about what happens in you when closeness actually arrives.
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Fearful AvoidantSelf-Protection
This reflection draws on established concepts in attachment psychology and emotional wellbeing research. It is meant for personal insight, not as a clinical diagnosis.