Loving Him,
or Trying to Fix Him?

You have read the articles, made the excuses, done the research on his behalf, on a problem that is technically his to solve. Somewhere in there, loving him quietly turned into managing him, and you are the only one who noticed the shift.

Answer from the work that is actually happening in the relationship, including the work you have quietly taken on for him. The more honestly you respond, the clearer this reflection can show what love is asking of you.