He is explaining himself again, and some part of you is already softening before he even finishes the sentence. Every woman has a hear-me-out moment. The real question is whether yours is harmless, human, or a quiet way of asking you to lower your standard one more time.
Answer from the exception you have been tempted to defend, even when a friend might raise an eyebrow. Your honesty helps this reflection show what you are truly making room for.
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This reflection draws on established relationship-psychology concepts around attachment, reciprocity, emotional safety, and self-protection. It is meant for personal insight, not as a clinical diagnosis.