Red Flag,
or Your Exception?

You noticed the thing that should have stopped you, and then you found yourself explaining it away to a friend before she even finished raising her eyebrow. Not every odd detail is a red flag. But not every red flag becomes harmless just because you found a charming explanation for it.

Think about the behavior you have explained away because the attraction felt persuasive. Your answers help this reflection show whether you are seeing a harmless quirk or a real concern.