The version of him that shows up on his good days is so warm it makes the cold days almost worth surviving. The warm version of him can feel addictive when the cold version keeps you starving.
Answer from the way his warmth and distance affect your choices. Your honest answers help this reflection show whether inconsistency has been mistaken for chemistry.
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This reflection draws on established relationship-psychology concepts around consistency, reciprocity, attachment, and emotional safety. It is meant for personal insight, not as a clinical diagnosis.
