You keep saying love is hard, when the truer sentence is that carrying it alone is hard. Love is not supposed to make you beg for basic emotional presence. Pain has a source, and naming it matters.
Answer from the pain that appears when you reach for him and the response you receive. Your honest answers help this reflection show whether an unequal connection is hurting your heart.
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This reflection draws on established relationship-psychology concepts around reciprocity, attachment, emotional availability, and self-respect. It is meant for personal insight, not as a clinical diagnosis.