Do You Know Him, or Are You in Love With the Possibility?

You can picture exactly who he could be for you, in vivid hopeful detail, built mostly from a handful of good moments and a great deal of your own imagination. Chemistry can make a possibility feel vivid before there is enough shared life to support it.

Consider whether you know him as he is or are devoted to a possibility. Your honest answers will help this reflection show the difference between limerence and love.