You feel most wanted in this relationship the moment something goes wrong and he needs you to fix it. Being needed can feel like being chosen, especially when a woman has learned to earn closeness through caretaking.
Answer from the version of him you keep waiting for and the relationship you are receiving today. Your honesty helps this reflection show where care may have become one-sided.
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Needed FantasyReal Reciprocity
This reflection draws on established relationship-psychology concepts around reciprocity, attachment, emotional availability, and self-respect. It is meant for personal insight, not as a clinical diagnosis.
