You miss the feeling of being someone's priority more clearly than you miss any specific thing he actually did for you. This quiz separates longing for a person from longing for the attention, safety, or hope the relationship once gave you.
Answer from what you miss when he is gone and what you need to feel loved. The more truthfully you respond, the more clearly this reflection can show the difference.
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This reflection draws on established relationship-psychology concepts around commitment, reciprocity, and emotional safety. It is meant for personal insight, not as a clinical diagnosis.