Are You Out of Love, or Protecting Yourself From More Disappointment?
You have stopped expecting much from him lately, and some part of you calls that peace while another part suspects it is simply self protection wearing peace as a disguise. This quiz helps you notice whether emotional numbness is the end of love or a nervous system response to a relationship that stopped feeling safe.
Answer from the ways you may be protecting yourself from more disappointment. The more candid you are, the more clearly this reflection can show whether you have emotionally shut down.
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This reflection draws on established relationship-psychology concepts around commitment, reciprocity, and emotional safety. It is meant for personal insight, not as a clinical diagnosis.