You have made yourself available for months now, adjusting your schedule and your expectations around a clarity he still has not offered. A soft woman can wait, but she does not have to become endlessly available to a man who will not become clear.
Think about the time you have given this relationship and what has changed because of it. Your answers help this reflection show whether patience is being met with movement.
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This reflection draws on established relationship-psychology concepts around consistency, reciprocity, attachment, and emotional safety. It is meant for personal insight, not as a clinical diagnosis.