You still say you love him, out of habit more than certainty, while some quieter part of you has stopped reaching for him the way you used to. Burnout does not always look dramatic. Sometimes it looks like no longer having the energy to care the way you used to.
Answer from the parts of the relationship that now feel heavier than they used to. Your honesty helps this reflection show whether burnout is changing the way you love.
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Burnout PatternNourishing Love
This reflection draws on established relationship-psychology concepts around consistency, reciprocity, attachment, and emotional safety. It is meant for personal insight, not as a clinical diagnosis.