A relationship can look fine from the outside and still leave your heart doing too much unpaid labor.
Answer honestly about consistency, repair, emotional safety, effort, and whether the relationship feels nourishing or draining.
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This reflection draws on established relationship-psychology concepts around attachment, reciprocity, emotional safety, and self-protection. It is meant for personal insight, not as a clinical diagnosis.
