From the outside this looks fine, good photos, a nice story to tell. From the inside, you are the one doing most of the quiet, unpaid emotional work to keep it that way. A relationship can look fine and still cost you more than it gives back.
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This reflection draws on established relationship-psychology concepts around attachment, reciprocity, emotional safety, and self-protection. It is meant for personal insight, not as a clinical diagnosis.