You have a label for this, girlfriend, situationship, something in between, and the label has stopped matching what actually happens day to day. The label does not matter as much as the stage your behavior is actually showing.
Think about where the relationship is actually moving, rather than where you hope it will go. The more openly you answer, the clearer this reflection can show the stage you are in.
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This reflection draws on established relationship-psychology concepts around attachment, reciprocity, emotional safety, and self-protection. It is meant for personal insight, not as a clinical diagnosis.