You have started needing more space from him than you used to, and you cannot quite tell if that is healthy rest or your heart already halfway out the door. Sometimes distance is healthy rest. Sometimes it is the first honest sign that your heart no longer feels safe staying open.
Answer from the distance you create when you need relief and the feelings that return once you have space. Your honesty helps this reflection show whether your heart is resting or checking out.
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This reflection draws on established relationship-psychology concepts around consistency, reciprocity, attachment, and emotional safety. It is meant for personal insight, not as a clinical diagnosis.