You sleep enough and still wake up exhausted before the day has even started, worn down by something that has nothing to do with rest. Some tiredness needs sleep. Some tiredness is your heart asking why love keeps feeling like labor.
Take a breath and answer from the moments your heart feels worn down by the relationship. Your honesty helps this reflection show how much you are carrying.
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This reflection draws on established relationship-psychology concepts around consistency, reciprocity, attachment, and emotional safety. It is meant for personal insight, not as a clinical diagnosis.