You have started setting up small tests he does not know he is taking, watching to see if he passes before you let yourself relax. A woman deserves reassurance, but love becomes exhausting when every moment has to pass a hidden test.
Think about the proof you look for when you care deeply and the fears that make proof feel necessary. Your answers help this reflection show how you are learning to trust.
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This reflection draws on established relationship-psychology concepts around consistency, reciprocity, attachment, and emotional safety. It is meant for personal insight, not as a clinical diagnosis.