A clean boundary protects your peace. Control tries to make another person become safe enough for you to relax.
Answer honestly about what you want him to do, what you are afraid will happen, and whether your limit still leaves him free to choose.
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This reflection draws on established relationship-psychology concepts around attachment, reciprocity, emotional safety, and self-protection. It is meant for personal insight, not as a clinical diagnosis.
